Weary, unfortunately, as you know, mtx affects the liver and I think the drugs in the same category/family as mtx do the same. Drinking can really increase any issues to the liver. I was never a big drinker to begin with, but I pushed it off completely b/c I started having serious liver issues. Now, when i have even just one drink, I feel so rotten the following day (flare and stiffness) that it just isn't worth it. I do occasionally have half a drink....but that's about
all I can handle and care to risk...but we're talking twice a year.
You'd have to do some research to see if any of the other drugs don't affect your liver quite as much as mtx does, but I think many of them do qualify for monthly blood work.
I take plaquenil and it works well for me, my current doctor is not monitoring my bloodwork, saying it's not necessary...but my last one did every few months. Some of my rhuemy's have been surprised at my plaquenil success...others know it does work well for some.
Good luck to you. I know it's difficult to give up things you enjoy, I hope you can find a happy medium.