My whole body hurts

i asume this girl is a good partner for him and hopefully they are close enough to you that they can  pop around if they need anything or for a sunday dinner.

it most probably has caused your sicky flare but keep You in mind and if that continues get on to it .

and your right your job was to prepare him for Life they are truely Never ours only on loan and if you have done all you can to guide him the rest is up to him .

stay strong try to keep busy

Our whole lives get so caught up in the kids, driving them everywhere keeping them on track for homework and assignments, then work, then parties etc. Not mentioning sport as that is a huge part of our weeks ferrying them to games and training.

I guess I dream about lying in reading the paper in bed, going for a walk unhassled by bored kids but I bet the reality is tough.

I know I'd get stuck into making things, my garden, my art, seeing movies again, catching up with friends. But I'd feel like a lost lamb at the same time!

So sending you BIG HUGS and letting you know we are all thinking of you, golitho

i used to do up  parcels to send i called them care packages if things were on sale id buy extra things like dish scrubbers or cleaners crisps etc or i'd go thru my cupbords and put tin food in there,and post it to him.

have a nice weekend try to enjoy the "me" Time have a bubble bath or read a book with a scented candle going - you know just spoil you time

i actually had a pretty good day Thursday and i decided to clean a few things (i had wanted hubby to do but he never got to them)

 Ha i bent down and used my arms Well next day woke up feeling like hit by a truck shoulder ach and again unable to walk

so took it easy yesterday and this morning still Yuck but oddly feeling a bit better within me (if that makes scence)

and the WORST Thing Know to Human Is Happening- Hubby is getting a --- Cold  Yes He has the Snivels so really hope it dosn't turn into "man-flu" i have hit him with panadol and Vitamin C so just wait and watch :)

weird thing is he has this gall stone issue he totally ignors but heaven help us when he gets a cold !!

Problem i have  well we all have - is i dont get better when he gets sick

and as he is my medical carer it is hard to be a wife and paitent at same time,

unfortunatly i often get told to "not worry about it" and he goes and dose what he wants eg i wanted a bench cleaned and he took 3 days to do it - gosh thats infuriating when you can't do it yourself.

i really am not putting him down as he is a very good carer and all our friends say he's one in a million he never goes to the pub or out with the boys and the things he's had to do for me a lot of guys would have run a mile but he's still a "man"and i get infuriated at times

 last time he got sick we were both laying in bed no one able to do anything,

But you don't want to hear me whinge Again :) hope you have a relaxing day and maby have a nice dinner with hubby when he gets home. :)

i know what it's like trying to "rub" when your hands give up hubby had one of his gall stone attacks and he wanted me to rub his side and i really tried but it was like lugging concrete i think i did about 4 circles when i was almost colapsing hands and Shoulders just give up.

i did my usual tried to do too much yesterday then woke this morning feeling like death

we had 3 visitors yesterday one after the other as we sold some items on ebay and the people came to pick them up

and i fed the dog and then when another friend came over i got up and made him a coffee and sat talking while waiting for hubby to come home it was the first day i had spent all day up only resting a little

But Today i haven't been able to moove Back Shoulders Hands Legs and Feet AAACCCHHH and have spent almost all day in bed i joked to hubby and said it was macking that coffee for W* that did it, so he said he's going to ring him and blame him for my Yuckie day :)

But seriously it is bad i really didn't do that much yesterday, but it seems i just can't do a full day i have to lay down for at least an hour