I felt AWFUL on methotrexate. I never really felt like it did a lot for me. Then I ended up being very sick a year later (liver went toxic among other things) and stopped taking it in 2003.
I've been on Arava since April and it is definitely making a difference (something I was never sure of on mthx) and I am not having as many noticable issues like I did on mthx (at least not yet - knock on wood!) I have been having some bowel issues for about a week and half....but, I just lowered my dose of Arava last month....don't know why something like that would kick in now if it is from the med. It's probably something else since there is a bug going around - I also just returned from a long camping trip, maybe my stomach is readjusting. I was VERY hesitant to start Arava after my mthx experience. I'm glad I tried it.
Also, my doc said they don't typically give the 'loading dose' anymore....he told me why, but I can't remember at the moment. In any case, I was not given one.
I've been on Plaquenil for 2 years now and it works great, unfortunately like you, I need a little extra 'umph' to keep me going. So far, the Arava has been helping (again, knock knock) in that area.
Good luck. Whatever your decision is - I hope it's beneficial.
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