Hi Paniccu,
I am so sorry for what your sister is going through, especially when it is her son. From what you said about the lieing and stealing, I don't know if he will change. If it is for drugs, hopefully the hospital stay will help him as he will detox. This is a tough call because so much is going on at one time. The bipolar issue and the drug addiction, so it will have to be a matter of time to find out what is going on. Did your sister talk to the doctor about her suspicions? Hopefully they will be able to give her his diagnosis and that there will be hope.
Keep posting and know that we all care.
Hugs, Karen