Holding on to our marriage

I can't really give you advice on marriage as my marriage was the most miserable decade of my life and I was so much better getting out of it BUT separating intuitively doesn't seem like the answer to me either. Get extra help at home and its a luxury, but couples counselling if it is possible. At worst, a nice short book, that may give you ideas to work through your dilemma is Andrew G Marshall's "Build a Life Long Love Affair". The smallest shifts can do so much. All marriages have challenges and hopefully some small changes can have you guys enjoying your 50th anniversary together and wanting it no other way xo

Post Edited (Living Well) : 1/7/2014 1:27:44 PM (GMT-7)

I agree with U/A counseling seem to be the best idea.

I would also agree with Living Well maybe he doesnt think he is supporting you well enough or doesnt know how to keep helping you.

I would sit down with him and talk to him about this problem and that way you do not feel alone in this situation.

Also try counseling for yourself that may help you to "stick with the program" better.

Hope that you find the help you both need.

I'm glad you're both getting help from your psychologist amshorty. I hope things get better for you.

UA