I have also the same diagnosis as you. I started taking depakote for my first medicine but had bad side effects. I am now taking something like depakote called Lamictal and an antidepressant. Because we are hypomanic, I believe antidepressants work very well for us. They def. put me hypomanic, which, in my life, is a great feeling and not bad whatsoever.
Also, Bipolar disorder is not a "crazy" disorder. BP is a chemical imbalance in the brain, and it has a lot to do with genetics, so you cannot control what happens. Just know that it is a gift getting diganosed and not a curse. Be glad that you found out the problem and now you can fix it =)
Hope those meds work out well for you!
-Allie