I hear you. Good for you. I have had such a relief since getting out 4 months ago. I have had only one mania, and i could trace that right to dealign with the emotional upheaveal of dealing with one of her anger flare ups.
Even my family have said i seem so much more relaxed and stress free. Eventhough i work as hard as ever, only having my problems and issues to deal with has been a relief.
Keep posting.
Bill