Loving someone when your BP

So i have done some internet surfing. Reading stories about what it is like to be in a relationship with someone like me, bipolar. I have an amazing boyfriend and hes been talking about being more serious together and marriage. I know that being with me is anything but a pleasant cake walk.
He loves me and my kids(that are from my ex husband). He has to put up with heck and back because my doc is a less is more kinda meds guy. Wont put me back on my reg dose of medicine.
Yet all thru this he has loved me and yet i feel like making a commitment to him would be condemning him to a very hard life. And honestly i love him too much to condemn him. I dont have any friends and my family doesnt understand.
Is it selfish for me to want to lead a normal life, even though normal is relative because i have bipolar and PTSD? I know that it would make his life very difficult.
I could really use some advice input anything. And dont be afraid to be honest, i am not one for sugar coating the truth.
Thanks, Em

Thanks Xaleah for that. I think that i am just scared because I dont want to mess it up. Yes hes been thru alot with me. Thank you

Hi WI,

It's nice you met a supportive and caring boyfriend. You should be happy that he accepts you for who you are and he want to make a commitment.

Xaleah have you some good advice.
I know it can be scary. Just remember to take it slowly and communicate. This is the key to a successful relationship.

I wish you all the best and hope things continue to go well

UA