12 years marriage comes to an end

After 12 years of marriage, after all that we went thru, the ups and downs and all those moment of madness.... my husband told me that's nothing more he can do or wants to do. He wants to end this, because he wants be himself again, the free spirit he was. what the hell is this crap! bloody coward who can't live up to being a man and husband. He never wanted to take care of me, he never want this burden. He's just a useless irresponsible coward. what's worst he said I was abusive all these while and even hit him . whole lot of bullcrap! everyone raise their voice when the cycle comes, something he knew all along and now he's accusing abuse! Big bloody irresponsible coward.

Hi naan1974,

I am sorry that your hubby wants to end the marriage. If you both want to work it out, I would suggest counseling. If he does not want to work it out, the relationship will not work. Both parties must try in order for a relationship to work. However, I would suggest that you consider counseling for yourself as it would help you get through this.

Please know that we are her for you.

*Hugs*

UA