I've been married with my wife for 4 years but together with her for 10. A few weeks ago she was telling me she was feeling more depressed and called her psychiatrist to possibly up her dosage. She wanted to wait and see. I noticed she was more depressed than i had seen her in some time but i figured that was expected with the loss of her job coming on. She had found out a month or two ago about
this so i thought it must be related. A week ago i noticed something odd. Something i've never really seen from her, it was such a powerful level of happy out of nowhere. She was dancing and singing and just amped up. I took concern for her at this point because she works out 3 times a week but once this all started she pretty much stopped eating. I was confused. She had limitless energy and no hunger, she also stopped drinking dunking donuts which were basically her only way to have the energy to get out of the door. She stopped sleeping as much, wasn't tired or couldn't stay sleeping. I was that nagging voice telling her she has to eat, also trying to be weary saying maybe this is a bipolar episode, I've never seen her on one all these years. She would just lash out at me telling me im just trying to ruin her happiness and just want to keep her sad. Thats the last thing i would ever want. We got into a big fight because she said she wouldn't allow me to manipulate her anymore and that's all i do. i was devastated. I needed time so i angry left. Later that night i found out she kissed my best friend. This is something she would never do. I fear it would of gone farther if he hadn't pulled away. I talked to her soon after that. She told me she doesn't love me and hasn't in awhile. She still loves me as her best friend but not as a husband. We have no perfect marriage that's for sure but this was out of nowhere for me. She needed me to leave to give her time to think and i did. No shes more certain that she must divorce me. I asked if we could try, offering to do just about
anything and she says no, i even said we should try marriage consoling but she was completely closed off to the idea, she just wants me instantly gone after 10 years. Does this sound like a bipolar episode or am i just grasping straws at a love i lost along time ago? If this is bipolar will she ever be the same or is this her reality now? I'm so lost, any words would help.
Post Edited (Devastated85) : 12/14/2015 2:12:53 AM (GMT-7)