decisions-too many to make

well today i got a call from my step sons school,he wasnt there today,then i got a call from he's therapist/counselor,she didnt take him to his appointment which was court ordered,and then the juvenile court called,she didnt take him to his probation counseler,dont know if she and he have run off again or what,this situation keeps getting more complicated.as many of you have said theres really nothing i can do,thats a terrible place to be.i feel helpless,thank you all for your help.ive been told by many people t get out of this marriage and go on with my life,and that whats been going on the last 5 or 6 yrs is what i have to look forward ,to,[to much to think about],