Dear Marie,
You might also want to check out FORCE: Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered, at:
http://www.facingourrisk.org
The organization is for people affected by hereditary breast and ovarian cancer, but many of the women there have had DIEP flaps and GAP flaps. Also there are photos in on our reconstruction boards.
Everyone that I know who has had a DIEP has been happy.
Warm regards,
Sue