Beth,
Welcome to this great group of ladies! Sorry you have to be part of this group. I'm 45, live in So. Calif., diagnosed last Sept., mast, 1 positive node, chemo, rads. I have 2 more rads to go and then hormone therapy. This place has been a tremendous support for me during this journey. No question is too silly or embarassing to ask. Chances are someone has been through whatever it is.