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Posted 11/27/2005 3:48 PM (GMT 0)
:-)  I would just like to say how gratefull i am that the people on the chatrooms are there for me..when i am feeling down and out..ever since my mom passed away...and i just wanted to thank everyone for being there in time of need..and i hope i learn alot about breast cancer so i can be prepared if by chance i get  breast cancer(which i hope i don't)thanks for all the advice..

sunshine24

 

Posted 11/29/2005 3:18 AM (GMT 0)
sunshine

Im glad that we have been a help to you. Pleas come and post as often as you can. The ladies here have been such a blessing to me and Im sure they will be for you too. Im sorry for the los of your mother, was it from breast cancer? Write some more and give us some background.
Posted 11/29/2005 2:53 PM (GMT 0)
>Yes my mother passed from breast cancer..she always said that she would never let the ****** win..i know i not allowed to swear on here but i am just goin by what she had told me..ya see during her last few months she was weak and and her heart was strong..and the ****** (cancer)went to her spine causing her not to walk very well.she started to fall sometimes and i don't know how i could handle that..i took care of her..i ever helped her to the bathroom and everything..i wasn't used to it because she always wanted to do things herself..she never told me she was dying..i guess she didn't want to worry me..she was a wonderful woman and i couldn't of had a better mother then her..we were and will always be best friends..her favorite poem was Footprints..wonderful poem if u ever read it..thank u again for taking the time in reading  my post..i just want everyone to know how strong my mother is..and will always be..she is my gardian angel ..i love her..

sunshine24.

Posted 11/29/2005 9:34 PM (GMT 0)
sunshine

I too lost my mother at an early age I was only 28 and I still think of her every day. Im glad that she did not have to see me go through this though, it would have broke her heart to see one of her kids be sick. Im so sorry for your loss I know how tough it can be. Yes I have read the poem footprints and my mom had it on her wall in her sewing room, which was her favorite place in the home. Take care.
Posted 12/6/2005 7:55 PM (GMT 0)
hey..thanks for the reply..im glad to know that your mom liked that poem too..my aunt read it at her service and it was awsome..it was different seeing her in this little box with her ashes in it..i wanted her to be layed out with her beauty showing everyone ..she has a makeover pic and i wanted her to look that way at the funeral but they creamated her before i could even ask,,there was nothing i could do..but im going to see her on monday i hope..each time i visit her i give her a fake flower that will last a lifetime...i miss her still and i always where the necklace that has a protion of her ashes in it..sterling silver..dove..

well thanks again for taking the time for reading my post..

keep in touch..

sunshine24..

Posted 12/6/2005 11:38 PM (GMT 0)
Sorry for your loss. My mom is still alive and sometimes I cry thinking about the day she won't be around anymore. She's not sick or anything so hopefully she will just die of old age. My dad passed away in '97 he was 79. I don't have any brothers or sisters. What relatives I have live in Europe and I only know my uncle and his wife and only met them twice because they came here. So once my mom is gone I feel like I will have no one. I'm sorry you didn't get to have your mom made up like you wanted. Hang in there and lots of {{hugs}} to you. :)
Posted 12/7/2005 12:57 AM (GMT 0)
Just to add my woes - my mom passed away suddenly, 3 months before I got married. I was so mad that she had lived long enough to take my younger sister down the aisle, but couldnt stick around to take me - I realize that she would've wanted to have been there, but that wasnt much consolation for me at the time. I now think of her as an angel keeping my daughter safe. However, for every door that closes, another opens. When my mom died, I felt free to find my birth mother, and as a result learned about the cancer history in my family, which helped me push for a biopsy. Serendipity.

Sunshine, my hugs to you. You will always keep the memory of your mother alive, and she will always be with you.

Chantry
Posted 12/8/2005 2:30 PM (GMT 0)

Thank u to everyone for sharing your losses and gains with me..im glad i have friends like you to help me with my loss..i hope in the future it will help me be strong like she was..feel free to email me at anytime..at [email protected]

thanks  again..and hope to see ya all in the chat room..

love sunshine24

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