Sex the first time

shipper12

Regular Member

Joined : Mar 2012

Posts : 110

Posted 4/12/2012 12:54 PM (GMT 0)

Dating a lovely lady who had a breast removed because of cancers. We soon will be intimate and Im a little concerned. It doesn't bother me that she has one breast, but am concerned that I may by accident say or do something that may be misunderstood by her. Any advice from Guys and ladies who have been through this.

barkyboys

Veteran Member

Joined : Jul 2003

Posts : 1564

Posted 4/17/2012 11:54 PM (GMT 0)

My opinion... don't pretend that this hasn't happened to her. Ask to see her scar. And whatever you do... don't balk! Think of it as a battle scar. It is to be admired. It is a part of her, and if you love her, then you have to love the scar.

Hope that helps. I'm probably not the best person to answer this, but that is how I would feel about it.

Bev

✚ New Topic ✚ Reply