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I have lupus and a myriad of other things, so I'm exhausted all the time. I don't have kids (fortunately, at this point) but I have drastically limited how much I work. I worked at a job for 6 years before I got sick. Once I got diagnosed, I told my boss what was going on, and he agreed to work with me. (We have an awesome relationship, and I told him I could find another job if he didn't want to deal with a part-timer, but he said he'd rather figure it out. I work a seasonal job, where normal hours are about
50 hours per week, or 10 per day often.)
I told my boss I could give him 7 hours a day, no more. And I could only work 4 or 5 days in a row. (Again, 7-13 in a row isn't odd.) There were days when I woke up and knew I would be useless and called in sick, but at the same time, there were a few days I knew we were super busy, and I pushed through it.
So, I sort of work. I don't work a ton right now, and will go up to about
30 hours soon. When I work that much, I basically cancel my social life. I'm in grad school right now, which is kicking my butt because I'm so tired all the time. I have a handful of random, part-time jobs, so I don't really have a regular schedule and lots of time "off."
Fatigue is my worst symptom, but my cardi says it is not due to low BP. My other doctor thinks it is, but no one can figure out a way to raise it. I find myself naturally sitting down a lot, just making my way to a chair without consciously thinking about
it.
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