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Posted 4/2/2008 12:06 AM (GMT 0)
I know there's been some hurt and angry feeling the past day over a thread that was deleted. I have no idea who took it off nor why but I'm trying to find out. Blaming others and getting angry isn't helping any of us, including me. We are never all going to always agree, but we have a right to our opinion. State it with kindness. We're all sick and hurting and don't need any more pain, emotional or otherwise.

If you don't agree with someone then feel free to attack the idea...NOT the person.

Chutz
Posted 4/2/2008 3:57 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks Chutz, I totally agree. I recently came back to the forums after a several month break just for this very reason; one of the last times I posted someone wrote back something that made me feel bad so I just stopped coming here for support.
Posted 4/2/2008 5:34 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks, Chutz, for trying to settle things down. I'm not sure it's going to last, however. I may end up feeling a little like Big Lucy, but for now I'll try to hang in here. I just wish people could understand my reason for objecting to that thread were not about just differing personal opinions. There was a much more serious issue. Nonetheless, I had nothing to do with its removal. Nothing.

Big Lucy, I'm sure glad you're back! When you get a chance, update us on the thread about returning to full time work. I'm looking over your shoulder a bit about that issue, trying to learn whatever I can about how we make these decisions when they're not cut and dried, or made for us by an employer.

Thanks to you both.
PaLady

Post Edited (PAlady) : 4/1/2008 11:38:36 PM (GMT-6)

Posted 4/2/2008 1:38 PM (GMT 0)
Love Chutz!
Posted 4/2/2008 8:03 PM (GMT 0)
Oh Gramps...you are just too silly for your own good!...lmbo

Love you guys more than you will ever know!
Chutzie
Posted 4/3/2008 1:53 AM (GMT 0)
I know that I am fairly new to the forum but wanted to post on this very important topic. I am so thankful to have found a place where everyone is open and willing to share their feelings and opinions. I also enjoy the warm atmosphere and caring members. It is great knowing that we can all turn a possible harmful situation into something positive! I just wanted to say keep up the good work.

Sincerely, Tam
yeah
Posted 4/3/2008 2:37 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks Tam!

We all have subjects we are passionate about but that shouldn't stop us from supporting and caring for each other. Glad you've decided to join us!

Chutzie
Posted 4/3/2008 2:42 AM (GMT 0)
Oh wow Chutz,
I thought that post was kinda informative and not hurtful. Gramps brought up a good subject. I hope nothing I said in it hurt anyone and if I did I sincerely apologize from my heart. Gramps that was a very interesting subject thank you. everyone had a most interesting aspect on it too, thank you all.
It was mainly opinions I believe with some facts and I hope no one got hurt by it.
oh, I did not delete it as I wouldn't know how to.
Thank you Chutz, we all luv you and gramps
Welcome back BigLucy and nice to meet you ptense1978 or Tam
Posted 4/3/2008 2:47 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you, Chartreux, for the warm welcome! I am very excited about getting to know everyone better and learning everyone's stories.

Sincerely, Tam
:-)
Posted 4/3/2008 2:59 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Char,

I did fine...as always. ;-) Keep up the great job. You're always helpful at cheering me up.

Hugs,
Chutzie
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