Hi 2010,
Welcome to Healing Well's chronic pain forum. I am glad that you found us but very sorry to hear what all is going on with your Mom. I have a pump too and I can understand your situation very well.
I will tell you it is very, very, very difficult to get another dr to look at a patient that has an intrathecal pain pump. Why, I have no idea, I found this out the hard way when my dr decided to quit pain mgt. He did refer all of his patients to another dr, but when I asked if one of the other drs in the clinic could take over my care that is when he dropped the bomb that other drs will not see you with an existing pump. My gut feeling is it is a liability type thing the drs do not want to get involved in, or they may think the patient really did not need the pump in the first place.
My mother was terminal with cancer and her dr put her on oral morphine and she could not tolerate it. She started vomiting and ended up in the hospital dehydrated and lost 3 pounds in two days, it was awful so I know what you are talking about. The dr told me well most people don't tolerate oral morphine, I am like then why did you give it to her knowing this, I was livid. His stupidity cost her five days in the hospital and she was very ill. Once the morphine got out of her system she was much better and on a different pain medication too.
Has your mom's dr tried any other pain medications in her pump? Many of us have combinations of medications in their pumps. I have Dilaudid, Clonidine, Bupivicaine and Sufentanil. This combination has worked very well for me. My first dr was not educated enough in pain pumps or the medications used in them so the last two years I was under his care I was in horrible pain and was bent over and could not stand up straight. When he quit practicing and the new dr saw me that he referred me too, she was shocked at the condition I was in. I still cannot stand up straight and probably never will, walking bent over for two years ruined my posture. My pain is under much, much better control with my new dr, I have quality life now. I do walk with a cane. If not being able to stand straight and having trouble walking sounds like more from her surgeries than what a pump would cause, but I am not a dr either. My pump does stick out in the front somewhat and more so since I have lost some weight.
I am not sure I am understanding what you are saying out your mom's spine sticking out. Usually pumps are implanted in the stomach, sort of to the side above the beltline. Now they do make an incision in your lower back and they feed the catheter from the spine around to the front where the pump is, of course all of this is done on the inside.
I do wish you luck in your search and hope that you can find someone willing to look at your mom. Please let us know what you find out. If you don't mind would you start your own post and not be on another person's post. That way everyone can see your post and reply. All you have to do is go to the top and where it says new post and type new member with questions on pain pumps or something like that. Posting on an older thread most of the time is not seen by that many. If possible please bring your mom to the forum and have her introduce herself too. Take care.