Hi Hydrangea,
I am very happy to hear that you are going for an unabiased a second opinion and maybe a third opinion too if you feel it is necessary. You can never be too cautious when it comes to surgery. Many people do get the 3rd opinions and I would do the same. It will be interesting to see what a new dr thinks of the two MRI's. I sure do understand your feelings towards these drs in how it makes you wonder at times are they in all of this together. Lets face it, its a very lucrative business for both.
I hope the eppie gives you some relief but my PM dr does not believe in them and one of my others didn't either. They just said it was a way to pad the bills and since they did not cure any problems what was the point of putting a patient thru that when they were already in pain. Honest, this came straight from the horses mouth.
Oh no, the last thing you need is a crohns flare up. I am having trouble as well, and this is not the time of year that mine normally flares. I don't do steroids as I cannot tolerate them. I just keep my fingers crossed all flares are short lived and the Humira wins out in the end, lol.
Please keep us posted on how you are doing and remember everyone is entitled to pity parties as long as we are all invited, lol. Take care.