Hi Rose,
I know you are suffering so and I am so sorry to see that!! I had hoped you were going to be our best success yet.
Anyway, I had the same procedure done and I UNDERSTAND the spams. I had them when I had my surgery done, 4 or so years ago, and I have them now. For me, Soma was the BEST overally muscle relaxer. It really worked, however, it is not FDA approved for long term use. So, now I use Robaxin, which helps some, but no where near as well as the Soma. The Soma, does give a "high" type of feeling occasionally......so I'm glad they pulled me off of it before I decided I liked it too much to just put down the bottle I had left.
Anyway, I use Biofreeze. You can get it from your local PT or can buy it online or over the phone. Don't bother with the drug store variety because it is NOT the same. Even the lidocaine patches that helped one of our members would not touch the spams, but the biofreeze will. I ordered the gallon jug because it was way cheaper in the long run and I promise it helps more than my tens or anything else!
Lastly, the trigger point injections have worked surprisingly well for me. I was honestly a non-believer, but did the injections to "please" my PM. Turns out they were right. The NP explained it to me by saying the Marcaine they inject breaks the spam in the specific muscle. I can honestly say that has been true for me.
Until you can get to the Dr (and having your hubby drive is honestly essential IMHO), please considere a warming blanket (like Sunbeam). They get as hot as my heating pad and cover more area. I use it almost every morning to break the morning spasms and then again at night to ease the muscles down before sleep.
Good luck my friend.