Posted 7/17/2013 12:19 AM (GMT 0)
Welcome to HW Chronic Pain, reenieme,
Glad you found us, but sorry you have a need to be here.
In my personal opinion, "acceptance" is the most crucial step in dealing with long term chronic pain. In my own case, I am dealing with advanced prostate cancer, and my chronic pain is associated with failed attempts to stop the cancer. My cancer is not going to get better, it is no longer curable, and my pain is not ever going to be eliminated entirely due to the nature of the damage.
It's not like I like knowing this, but it is reality for me, and I fully accept it. Having said that, it helps give me the strength to move ahead, one day at the time, and to always hold onto the hope that something could happen in the future, its always possible.
Perhaps you could start a new thread and introduce yourself, and tell us a bit about your personal pain journey.
My best to you,
David