My concern revolves around what to say to my PT when I see him on Monday.
Conventional wisdom says not to cut those ties until I have someone else lined up.
Also,...I don't know how or what to SAY to this PT to explain my dissatisfaction. I don't want to make him mad (to give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe there are several misunderstandings,....I know for darn sure there are more than one).
I don't want to come off as arrogant, demanding, and uncooperative, -- all of which he can choose to reflect in his reports that will be reviewed by Disability and the next PT.
I am going to search for other PT's, there's no question about
it. I just want to do it in a way that "saves face," if that's possible, without pissing off practitioners I may someday need some type of reference or letters from.
I'm (still) so angry, (I have not been able to let this go yet), that I fully confess I am worried about
seeing him and speaking to him Monday for fear of what I'll say, especially without another PT lined up....and even when I DO get another PT,.....how much you want to bet the new ones will want to hear what these guys have to say about
me.
I'm tightly grasping this anger and not letting go because there is no closure, so my imagination is running wild. And until I speak face to face with him Monday, that anger will thrive.
The problem is: I do not know "what" to say to him, "how" to say it, how to say it without burning bridges, and how to relay all the things I am downright irate about
without being written up as a difficult patient. It's not one or two things, it is SEVERAL things they're neglecting, all of which my doctors and surgeons AGREED must be dealt with, "me as a whole body" with these "new parts" if I don't want to premature compromise the adjacent regions.
I swear they don't read the notes, they don't read the previous PT notes or MD notes, they go ONLY on "their own assessment" and pick and choose what (single) area they'll work on.
Forgive my rambling, but I am so upset and angry that it's making me physically sick. I didn't realize how bad this bothered me until....since my Friday appointment, I've been feeling worse and worse, here we are Saturday night,...than I did at the time of my Friday morning "session." It's eating me up inside.
Merrida
Merrida I had to do a little editing, please remember HW has rules concerning language as it is a family oriented site, thanks....Susie
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