Posted 11/30/2013 5:27 AM (GMT 0)
Heads up: I'm saying this to encourage you, not to discourage you, not in the least!
I'm still having problems standing. When I cook or am folding clothes, I have to do it in pieces that are between 5-10 minutes, then sit down, walk around, sometimes even lay down.
For me, the biggest help has been the freedom to move. Major pain triggers are being in one position for "too long," whether that is standing (the absolute worst), sitting (the second absolute worst).
Now, just based on my experience, (remembering everyone heals at different rates, etc., etc.)....at six weeks, nope! I wasn't out hopping about. I was still using a walker, walking with a cane was rare,-- doable but rare. And scary.
I still couldn't sleep. Couldn't get comfortable. I slept with at least 6 pillows propping/supporting myself.
As you know, I'm 11 months post-op, and today for example, my PT really worked me hard, and I had another bad pain spike, weakness, intractable pain that my meds barely touched.
But that happens. Before surgery, I wouldn't have "survived" even a gentle PT session, and I keep reminding myself that. Doing so helps me maintain perspective.
It took months and months for a lot of the symptoms to start to dissipate. Of course I've read stories of people walking soon after (I was too,...with help,..to the toilet!)...but even now, shopping for groceries, it's more comfortable holding onto the cart, but I make multiple trips on average 20 minutes.
Break things down into smaller time chunks.
They really are not kidding when they tell you that it takes a long time for recovery with back surgery. It's so complex, between the nerves being relieved, the stabilization of the vertebrae. It's slow.
I questioned it and doubted what I had done for at least the first 8-9 months.....but remember, it's really cool when you find YOUR point in healing where you'll start to notice that things don't hurt like they did, you won't be focusing so intensely on your pain and your med schedule, the anxiety will lift,....
This is where HW helped me so much...when you start to question yourself, think something's wrong, when you feel afraid and anxious,....come here to find out just how many others can relate who've been in similar situations. The sheer value of not feeling so alone in these scary times,....it's priceless!
...and just wait until that wonderful night when you sleep all the way through! Refreshing!
Must emphasize the importance of patience. I under-estimated it, I didn't plan on it taking "this long"....but what the heck, here I am, and all sorts of new things are grabbing my attention.
Hang in there, but don't be afraid to contact your doctor/surgeon if you have questions, if something doesn't feel right. That's why they're there!
Best of luck to you!
From an understanding soul,....
M.
PS: Remember that Neurontin takes a few WEEKS of consistently increasing your dose, per your doctor's scheduled directions, until an optimum blood level is reached, and then a few weeks ON that new optimum level. Make sure you give it a fair chance. It's a great med for those who find it works for them! Hang in there, and don't, do not, just stop taking it. This drug takes time to get the benefits from it.