I think me and Leila would have similar solutions. I'da punched the guy.
What a dweeb. I'm glad you spoke it back at him cuz he, obviously, is oblivious and insensitive AND undereducated. Shhheeeessshhh!!
That being said--OMG I am so relieved.
I'm a BC survivor and I know how whole worlds go upsidedown when that stuff threatens your world.
I'm so relieved and glad for you!!
G-d hears, yaknow?
*huge hugs!!*