Hi Mt and welcome to the chronic pain forum. My gi is like yours he will not rx pain meds either and I really do not blame him. After being in pain mgt for so many years you really can get an education at the lengths some people will go just to get their hands on pain meds. Its that kind that has ruined it for the legitmate folks that need help.
It sounds like your appt went very well with your PM dr today . As long as you are doing what you are suppose to be doing, you will not have any problems with your dr. Pain Contracts, pill counts and random UA's are all part of the PM program these days. Also, I am sure you were told to use only one pharmacy too. That is wonderful that this dr has several crohns patients that he treats, not all drs know much about this lovely condition.
When I first joined HW I was over at the CD forum. I had just had an emergency resection and was dx'd with crohns. I had no clue about it except I had never been so sick and in so much pain in all my life. I have dealt with many different kinds of pain in my life but none can compare to what crohns can set off. Therefore, I can relate to what you are saying when you talk about the pain. You are right the folks at the CD forum are a terrific group and many of the older members are still hanging their hat over there. Those people helped me so much. My drs all suggested that I get online with a reputable forum because they did not have the time needed to really give me info I needed. Also, please be aware that many times pain medication causes constipation. I wanted to give you the heads up in that dept.
I do hope the Remicade does the trick for you. I did the infusions every 4 weeks for 3 and a half years and that was the only thing that gave me any kind of relief. After a while though it lost its effectivenss with me, I built up antibodies to it and developed Lupus from it, but it was sure good while it lasted. Also, don't know if you know this or not, but your infusions should be tailored to your needs, not everyone can go 8 weeks in between infusions, mine was bumped up to every 4 weeks.
Take care and keep us posted on how you are doing.