AngelicSpirit,
Hi... welcome to the board. I saw that you've posted a couple of times....
I'm sorry you are dealing w/ all the pain issues you are - and I know how frightening it can be... especially when you have kids to raise. Many here have been through surgery.... I also wonder what else you've tried.... have any medications helped you? That sort of thing.
I'd really encourage you to start a new thread and post an introduction - so that all members can see it and give you a good welcome... and perhaps share their experiences re: surgery and so forth.
Look forward to getting to know you better.... --Tina