Good morning Jette!...and Welcome!
This is a chronic pain forum...and you will not find anyone here that will judge you for taking med's for pain. We have a very supportive membership here to say the least.
As for the extended release Dilaudid...everyone is going to be different so your anwsers are going to be mixed. The same with the Fentanyl patch,..... it works great for some and others nothing but problems. I happen to be one of the problem childs on the Patch,..and I still have not gotten decent relief and consistant relief. In my opinion the delievery system leaves much to be desired.
All you can do is give the dilaudid a try and see how well it suits you. If you have been through most all med's..and they provide little relief...then you may have to consider the pain pump.
Good luck!
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