Hi millymilan,
Congratulations on becoming a new grandmother
I'm sorry to hear about
your depression and chronic pain. I think you should definitely get your back checked out to see what's causing the pain. Your daughter should think about
the positives that will happen if you go for surgery and she must also remember that you may feel better and not be in so much pain. I'm glad your husband is supportive.
Let's us know how it goes if you decide to visit the surgeon.
Hope you feel better.
Take Care
UA