Posted 8/19/2013 10:30 PM (GMT 0)
Jim,
I had my back surgery 12/12/12. I put it off as long as possible as well. The only regret is that I didn't do it a little sooner. People wait, but younger, healthier bones/bodies heal better than elderly, fragile structures, yet they comprise the bulk of a surgeon's work.
I am 50. At 49 I had a total hip replacement on the left. Then in December, I had spinal reconstruction of L1 through L5, titanium cage, screws,...required bone marrow graft and bone grafts, both taken from my pelvis,....then recently on June 10 I had my right hip replaced.
I would do it all again in a heart beat.
I'm glad for the time I had postponing surgery. I knew this time would come eventually. With me, my neurosurgeon, the head of the department at Tufts in Boston, a teaching hospital, admitted I was a very complex case. I had some nerve damage, some that may never recover, but I'm hoping. But waiting too long, you can get permanent damage.
As for needing surgery in the future, my opinion is: Yeah, well,...that's life. If I want to take care of myself it's called maintenance. Nothing "fixes" or "cures" anything and we are always repairing or taking care of ourselves. Some of us just need more intensive means.
I'm early in the game, but I am happy I had it done. I had an excellent surgeon. The first neurosurgeon I saw was honest, and referred me to a major hospital, and to a surgeon who handles "difficult cases", usually trauma. I wouldn't hesitate to return to him IF I even need to. And I had extremely invasive and complicated work done to my spine in high risk areas. I think that I'm realistic and that makes me feel like this is a success.
Sookie