Alcie...Try not to let this get you down. I agree with jpjr50. Your experience sounds similar to mine, so I can FEEL your pain and frustration.
It may help you to read my posts detailing my efforts to get relief. (long post ENDOMETRIOSIS, but includes spine/joint specialists) I was ultimately referred to PM for not only my spine/joint issues, but also for stage 4 endometriosis.
I, too was told by NEURO and ORTHO that although the images indicate serious problems, surgery is not the answer. The GYNs told me that abdominal/pelvic pain is probably adhesions, but again, surgery is not the answer. I feel so defeated because I "wanted" the source of pain to be "fixed". Instead, I was forced to seek PM, which thus far has given LITTLE relief. Instead, PM has caused relentless stress.
We HAVE to keep trying, Alcie. We're here for each other.
Hugs~~Dixie