Hi Missyjack!
I am so sorry to hear about your recent loss, but I am glad you have reached out for support. Good for you!
In 2007 I became pregnant. I was in as close to remission as I've ever been at the time I got pregnant (I don't think I've ever been totally in remission). We had quite a time getting pregnant (just under a year of intense trying!)-- turns out I wasn't ovulating, so we tried some Clomid (an ovulation stimulating fertility drug), and it worked on the first try!
During my pregnancy I was taking Asacol and Imuran (100 mg). Unfortunately, at about 17 weeks I started a flare with moderate bleeding, so I was then also on Predisone (a small 10 mg dose) until tapering down at the end of the pregnancy (went off at 35 weeks). I am happy to report that other than the flare, I had no other pregnancy problems at all-- it was a picture perfect pregnancy. I was working out up to 38 weeks, and working up to the day before my c-section!
Despite my fears about the Imuran, my daughter was born in perfect health and totally beautiful. :) 6 lbs, 11 oz.
Unfortunately, my pregnancy flare never relented, and my Crohn's has spread and worsened in areas. I am slated to start Remicade soon. I hope to get better control of my disease so my husband and I can start trying for our second child this fall.
Best of luck to you on this! Having a child is just an intensely wonderful thing.
Cheers,
Allison