Hi Pearl!
I'm actually in kinda the same situation as you, only I'm headed off to have surgery in about 5 hours. I had a resection about 6 yrs ago, and was in remission for that long, in April I started getting really sick again, and had a horrific flare up that put me in the hopital for a couple weeks. I was put on prednisone 100mg a day, which kept everything under control, but when I started to taper down it all went down hill. We tried Humira, but I didnt notice any difference, my GI said it might be because of the scar tissue. So Im having 4-5 inches of active crohns being removed, plus some scar issue that is narrowing, my GI said would never go away unless removed (which kinda doesnt make sense to me, if you remove it...you'll get scar tissue again, no?) But, what do I know. I fought with my GI for a good while because I did not want surgery again, but at this point I just want to get it done and over with so I can stop dealing with this stuff for a while at least. I feel like I'm making the right decsion, besides the fact that I cannot be on Prednisone the rest of my life to keep me stable. Hopefully this does the trick. Really, its up to you...I'm just at my wits end, and just so tired of medication not working. Do some research, and get some more advice from people here, hopefully that will help you. Goodluck with everything!!