UPDATE: It's now about 9pm, and just got in from being at the Hospital since 8:30am. As some may recall, we were waiting for today to get some answers to whats been going on with my daughter. I've come home with more questions than I left with, and I'm really not sure if this is the right time to post this update, as I'm totally spent. After a Physical exam, our GI felt that there was a definite mass in the lower abdomen and right side, and suspected an abcess, (Still not sure what that is exactly?). We went for blood and an X-Ray. The X-Ray showed more, but not enough detail, so next was an Ultra sound. The Ultra Sound showed more, but our GI had to leave, so we were put to the on call GI. She felt that there was a possible perferated appendix, along with Crohn's activity as the blood work showed, so now we have to see a Pediatric Surgeon. As a sidebar, I'm really getting more and more confused as the day goes on, my daughter is just a mess at the unexpected thought of surgery. Fortunately, the Surgeon seemed brilliant, and was so thorough, that I couldn't even think of a question after she was done. Anyway, she felt strongly, that there was nothing wrong with her appendix. Now here's where I'm not sure if things change for better or worse. The Ct scan, was inconclusive on the appendix, but confirmed quite a lot of inflammation, to the point where they feel it has gone right through the intestine, and is leaking out into the abdomen. They admitted her right away, and started IV antibiotics. The GI say she will likely be in for a week. They're hoping the IV will work, but aren't sure, and might have to drain it as well, then formulate a plan to treat the Crohn's again.
I know that I've got awfully long winded, but if anyone, can help with some advice/experience/opinions, I'd be eternally grateful. After the day I had, trying to keep it together for my daughter, and wife, I then had to come home and explain things to my 12yr. old son. He just adores his sister, and is really broken up.
I suppose I could write a list of questions, but I'll bet you all know what they likely are. Also, I really want to Thank everybody deeply, for all the help. I can't tell how much this has helped.