it seems rare when a question asked on here gets the responses expected while at the same time showing a variety of responses.
I also think I see the thread here of many having "crohns" days often but they can be dealt with and flare times are the days most would say they really can't deal with. (By dealing with I mean work around or get through without affecting your daily routines or work)
My post here is not meant to supress further discusssion or responses....but hopefully to add another dimension to the discussion....and that is to ask/say: If it is not a flare...and it is, as someone said a "crohns" day.....is that what our lives have become? What is our NORMAL? as compared to non-crohns people.
I have waffled back and forth the last several years of thinking I am in flare...and I have it under control and have a NEW normal....
Maybe the best way to go forward is to describe our normals....our crohns days and our flares (if you are interested...I am trying to get a handle on the degrees of normal and flares so as to know if I should expect more out of my treatments)
For me a good day would be zero to only a few cramps, less than 5 trips to the john, semi-solid waste, good appetite, able to sleep thru the night, a crohns day is cramps when I feel the need to go, cramps when I go, 10 to 15 trips to the bathroom, semi solid to full on D, loss of appetite. A flare is when my crohns days string together for more than 5 straight days and increase the bathroom trips to 20 plus every few days blood shows up. Recently I have the added joy of severe abdominal extension due to gas...it comes and goes.
I am getting the idea that many of us have really lowered our standard level of "normal" to something that we have just learned to accept.