Mooby, a few random thoughts.
My 13yo son ('m dad) was diagnosed about 3.5 years ago I wish I had started him on remicade right away. It really does help. This past summer at Camp Oasis the DR told me rem has changed everything. Kids at camp rarely have pred because so many of them are doing great on rem. It makes my son feel a lot better, he looks forward to getting it. Unfortunately his perianal fistualas haven't healed like we expected, and he actually gets rem every six vice four weeks.
Went to an EXTREMLEY informative IBD conference in Atlanta last month. Mayo, Cinci Childrens, DR K or Emory...all the brains. Learned alot..... here's what I took away:
Get this.....you know how many drugs are currently approved for use by the FDA for CD?????? ONE (remicade). All the others that are used are not indicated specfically for CD. And rem has only been around for 10ish years (don't quote me). YOU READY FOR THE GOOD NEWS? (forgive my yelling moderators, I'm excited ) Right now there are 25 drugs in the pipeline (and close to coming out) which attack FIVE different aspects of CD (immuno, cellular, etc). Plus, get this, they have ID'd something like 25 genetic markers for IBD. One DR (DR K) said that in a few years he see's a time where they won't say you have CD,UC...but IBD 17, or IBD 5. Then, they won't putz around with drug A...they'll jump to drug F which they will know is more effective against your particular strain (?) of IBD. As he put it, you wouldn't go into a shoe store and see a pair you like and try it on....you'd measure your feet and limit your 'try on's' to shoes of your size. I said all that to say this.... TIME IS A FRIEND!!! With each passing day, new stuff is coming!
This next concept has literally taken me three years to grasp. DON"T think long term. If your child's treatment leads to a good quality of life...that's what you look for. That's what the docs discussed. Is she okay in school, have a social life, generally happy, able to keep a job.....you get the point. That's my new mantra with my sainted wife when we get our thrice weekly teary-wet pillow parties.....our son is a great kid with friends. He does well in school. He wakes up smiling every morning despite his constant reminders on his bottom. What else could a parent ask for.
Lastly, be your kids advocate. We talked to every one of my son's teachers from the fifth grade up until now. We laid out the deal, and he has a no questions asked hall pass. He sits back by the door in all his class so he can slip out need be.
No way around it.....THIS SUX! But you know, I told my wife on day one, if we hear Himalayan camel wee cured someones CD.....we'll pack our bags, study how to ID Himalayan camels against others, and build up a thirst for camwee. That's what parents do. To date, those miracles don't exist. Hit is hard medically from the go and BIDE TIME.
Post Edited (Crohn's Kid :() : 9/12/2009 11:33:08 PM (GMT-6)