OH i am going in for my first tightening today actually in an hour. I don't think anyone can understand the pain associated with this procedure overall. I had a whole year of draining the abscessed area until a month ago when my doctor sent me again to a surgeon whom immediately sent me to surgery. I found out there were two tennis ball sized areas in my perennial area one that I had known and reared its ugly head so to speak just under the skin and a much more sinister one up higher embedded in the muscle area. I had the seton placed a month ago and now to my dismay i must begin what from the posts here appear to be a horrific journey in misery. I am 36 a full time mom and wife who has been finishing my two majors and minor in college due to being laid off work. I just started this problem with these after i had a cyst removed about
a year ago.....and now more. surprisingly i manage to get myself up and back at classes (in a lot of pain) in a matter of days as this is my second to last term and i must push through....it is nice to have others to commiserate with however since this is so painful. My family keeps talking about
so and so who had hemorrhoid surgery and I just cannot tell them how very different this is.....I HAVE A FREAKING TUBE AND WIREY STRING HANGING about
FIVE INCHES OUT OF MY BUTT......i feel like a transvestite learning to tuck every day as i dress.....can anyone offer ways this can be made more comfortable for daily management.....it just feels like a nightmare really...how in gods name does someone actually get this did i do something wrong at some point.