Hello Sonpan, the most important advice I have to you, is to have your familly doctor recommend your Mom to a good therapist.
Even though flareups are important, having suicidal thoughts is a completely different thing and I would consider it much more important.
Just talking to a therapist a couple of times can make such a difference, and in the long run it could really help her.
So please, think of that first and then think about getting her help with her flareups.
Hope this helps, good luck.
Post Edited (cleanfreak) : 5/30/2012 4:51:04 PM (GMT-6)