Update: I called a gyno yesterday and when I explained why I wanted to see him he totally refused to see me. Said I was a high risk patient and they only do routine pelvic exams, Pap smears, things like that. He even advised me to not call anyone in the area because no one was going to want to do that. (Aside from the possible fistula, he didn't like the idea of breaking my hymen as I'm a virgin and a lot of the doctors in my area are really conservative and don't want to do that. me personally I don't care about
that I just want to know what's going on)
So I messaged my GI and asked him to give me a referral to a gyno at the same hospital I see him at. So they're going to make me an appt with a gyno there, which I looked up and he seems really good. He specializes in high risk pregnancies, so I doubt he'll refuse to see me.
Also, I don't have feces coming out but I'm wondering if it's because I don't have watery stool. Or does it come out from the vagina regardless of whether it's formed or watery? Because that is the only symptom I don't have. I forgot to mention in my symptom list that almost every time I have a BM my vagina hurts. Is that related?