Morning folks. Or rather, afternoon now :p
@Sparkleplenty - Thanks!
@Gumby - I reckon it's easier if I give you a link rather than try to explain what adacolumn is. But basically it's a method of filtering inflammatory white blood cells:
/www.crohnsandcolitis.org.uk/news/adacolumn-what-you-need-to-knowAs for my mum, me and my dad have accepted that she will be drinking up to the day she dies in all probability. She's 77 and I'm amazed at how good her health has been and still is - touchwood. At least her drinking isn't getting any worse; if anything I would say it's better compared to 10-20 years ago, when she went out more socially - me and my dad used to dread when she came home on Wednesdays, after she'd been drinking all afternoon with her friend. You never knew what type of mood she was going to be in. But that said, sober, my mum has always been a far more easy-going person than my dad.
I haven't decided about
Easter yet. If the budesonide has kicked in by then, it will be easier.
@nssg - Ah okay. I'm very glad to hear you are not cut off from your entire family. As for my siblings, I was never close to them as a child. I was the youngest out of 4, and had 3 older brothers who didn't treat me well. They took the piss out of me all the time and called me things like fat and a loser (I was overweight as a child). My mum later on claimed to have never known anything about
it. For many years I nurtured a grievance over my childhood, but I would say I'm about
80% over it now. My brothers didn't have it that easy themselves. We had an authoritarian and neurotic dad (a couple of years ago I realised he had high functioning autism, like me, but we hardly knew that at the time). The two older brothers bullied my youngest one. I reckon my youngest brother has some kind of undiagnosed bipolar disorder; he drinks too much and can be emotionally manipulative: I'll be friendly with him but don't really trust him. The middle brother is deffo on the spectrum like me and my dad: that's become more obvious as he's got older. But he's also the brother I get along by far the best with in adulthood. I'll happily spend time with him when he comes to visit. The oldest one is the most responsible and conventionally 'normal' one. He's also the one who has Crohn's as well, and the only one of us to have any children.
Sorry, I got a bit carried away there. I'll end up writing my entire autobiography on HW at this rate. But yeah. I hope in the future you get to see your family more. Living thousands of miles apart is definitely a massive barrier!
@randy - I really want to see that painting. Is there any chance you could take a photo of it and upload it? If not, then that's okay - I guess it is sort of personal in a way.