Thanks yalls replies make me feel more optimistic about
it. I was thinking that what I had did years before was "standard" but I guess not. I growl at my dr at the mention of them and after he got me off of them never again. He told me on the phone I know you don't want to do them but I feel we need to. SIGH...He didn't tell me what dosage or how long so I was trying to find out what others do. If he tries to go for 60mgs I'm gonna refuse and tell him I want to try less like 30 and see how that works. I really think that the stress from having this surgery tomorrow and the fact that my husband is going to have to care for my child for a week really has me stressed out. Plus last december I had surgery for the same thing (which obvosiouly wasnt a sucess) and I stopped breathing and I'm scared (i would say poopless but thats unfortunately not the case lol) of going under again. Thanks all!