Im fortunate that I was with my current employer for over 2 years before I flared and was out for over 3 months. Im also in a union so they basically cant get rid of me haha. I can see an employer being upset with an employee who spends too much time in the bathroom, I think its completely understandable. However, I see clearly through the eyes of a person with Crohns disease and how badly we want to work, and not only that but do well at work to in a way prove ourselves. I really think it could go either way, I am sure if I wasnt in a union they would have canned me long ago. My GI recomended that I go in disability, but I refused to. Perhaps you can go on a temp disability until your Crohns is somewhat under control, or you find the right meds for you. Im in the bathroom at work numerous times a day, luckily the girls in my department are very understanding and feel for me. I feel the same way as you, Crohns can very well be disabling at times, but in my case its not a disability. I know that I can work, and I know that I do a better job then 90% of the people I work with, my set back is though, that Im gone for long periods of time, and Im always in the bathroom. I think its almost natural for an employer to want someone who does half-assed work, rather then someone who does good work but is never there, or always "missing" aka in the bathroom. I wish people had more compassion, but I guess they need to put money in their pocket too.