Really, Minnietoy, you need to leave these two jerks. What about
your family doctor, does he/she treat you any better? Maybe you need to take a good authorative friend, male or female, or your husband or father, w/you to these office calls. It may well be that somewhere in your medical records that get transfered from one doctor to another is a notation that you are a wimp or tend to exagerate or something.
And the next time you encounter a doctor, any doctor, regardless of how badly you feel, straighten your shoulders, stand tall, look them straight in the eyes and speak strongly and clearly, do NOT be apologetic or pleading. This is YOUR health, YOUR body, YOUR life and YOU are paying THEM, regardless insurance, out of pocket or even thru some medical aid. It is THEIR RESPONSIBILITY to treat you respectfully and provide advice and the best care they are capable of.