Hello, i am 1 month into this nitemare and do not know whats next.
We were on vacation in punta cana and just thought i had hemrides, alittle problem siting' so i was putting cream on and drinking , made it home and only wanted to lay on couch, no sitting or walking. After two days i thought something was going to explode. It was between my ****** and balls the size of a small corn cob. At 2 in afternoon on a sunday i told wife i needed a doctor.
We live in the country so had to drive to a bigger city. Went to first clinic and they looked at it and sent me to emergency and sald they will be ready when i get there. I thought they would just lance it and id be good to go. Get there and doctor says you need surgery now, i wake up after and of course i fell beter (drugs) dr comes in and tell me we had to do 2 cuts .
1between ass and balls and just to the side . And ill have to change packing few times a day. Thank god for my wife. Then he says to save from cutting into your ass musule we had to put in a seton for a while. Not a clue what he ment.
I felt down there and i have this cord between this glad and my ass. Told the dr that on jan 25 th we had a two week vacation planned and i didnt want to go with this in. He says we will see. Leave hospital go home ans all i wanted to do is lay on couch. Hard to make a living on the couch. And pain pills wont let me have a bm and that pain is worse. I see on other peoples post that after awhile you wont know its there i know its only a month but i dont go a day without knowing its there, so know we are on are 2 week vacation with my seton.lol
We do alot of walking and if i put this cream on its not bad. We gone diving and diving was great but boat ride very bad. Tomomrow we have rented a motorcycle and we will see how it goes. Still have bleeding and puss after a month. Dr want me to see a rectal surgon when we get home about
a flap.
Will keep posted. Back to the beach its 85 and sunny, better then home with snow and below zero temps.good luck to you all.
