If your daughter had no problems with milk and cheese before she got sick, then she isn't lactose intolerant - well, at least not permanently. Sometimes a flare-up can bring on temporary intolerances to foods we digest fine when we're well.
I had the same issue with
everything causing me problems - one food hardly seemed any worse than another. There was no food in existence which caused zero symptoms. As soon as anything hit my lower bowels, that was it: I was feverish, fatigued, in discomfort or pain for hours until it had all passed. Still the same today, except it's less severe now (but still a pain).
Anyone who says they are "cured" by diet is either lying, in denial, or never actually had Crohn's in the first place. Diet is NOT curative. It is NOT healing. Even in those cases where extremely restrictive diets work, the effect is not long-lasting. The Crohn's hasn't been cured or gone away for good. The inflammation can come back at any time and frequently does so fairly quickly once the thing keeping it at bay is removed - meds, etc. Although not always. Some people have lengthy remissions without doing anything to maintain it, i.e. they're not on meds or following a restrictive diet.
In truth the outcome of Crohn's depends more on your genes than any other factor. But that's not something that anyone preaches. So many people want to think they have "beaten" this disease.
PS: Don't let your daughter's reaction to mesalamine put you off trying other Crohn's meds. They are completely different, chemically, to mesalamine. I was fine with 6MP, Azathioprine, Remicade, Humira and even methotrexate (an old and notoriously brutal chemo med). It was just mesalamine I had the really bad reaction to.
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