Feeling so down, smoke more cigarettes, girlfriend needed space

Hi Styves,

I hope that you do go on Easter Sunday.  It will be good to see the girls.  Are you getting them an Easter basket?  I hope to see my grandkids on that day.  Haven't gotten them anything yet.  I hate to get candy because they get so much.  MY granddaughter loves books so I think that is what she will get.

I am happy that her bf wont be there.  It is a time for family and he sure isn't family.  I really hope you have a good time with your children.  And you will get to see your dog too.  What kind of dog is she?  I hope she isn't getting neglected too bad there, dogs are so special.  If she is getting abused, it may be best to take her to a shelter until you can get a place of your own.  Let them know you will want her back.

My prayers are with you Styves, I think of your situation a lot, and I can see how hard it is right now.  I know you will get through this, you are a good man and are doing what is right.

Peace and hugs, Karen

Hi there Styves,

Thank you for the wonderful complement.  There are other people in this world that are good at heart.  I love helping people the best way I can.  Since I have had fibromyalgia, I haven't been as active, and this is something I found looking for help for myself.  So If I can give back and make somebody even just smile, it makes my day.  So you have really enriched my heart. 

I am very fortunate to have a very good husband who takes care of me, which in turn gives me time to come on the forum.  I don't know what I would do with out him.

You are a very good man, and I know that you will find somebody that will be very good to you and your children.  When the time is right, she will come along.  I have faith in that.  Now I know that you probably only think of what you can do for your children and that is what you are focused on.  But you never know what is going to happen good in this life.

I hope you see your kids on Easter Sunday, remember you have every right to see them.  If it doesn't suit her, well that is her problem.

hugs, Karen

People can change, it doesn't mean that she will, but it isn't 100 percent that she wont. She sounds young and as she grows older she will maybe come around and see things for what they are before it is too late to have that relationship with you and your children. So take life one day at a time, do what you feel is right for you and hope for the best. Life is so strange, and you never can tell what is going to happen. But life is also short so enjoy every minute that you can, especially with those girls. You will never have any regrets.

peace and hugs,
Karen