sad again

Hi Confused,

I didn't realize that you still had classes either, so you must be a very busy young lady. That is good.

I am glad that you aren't texting your x any more. I think that you will find yourself too busy for that soon. I am so happy for your job. It still sounds interesting even though you aren't doing any thing 'major'. But what you are doing, I think, is very important. Keep up the great work. I know that you will make a good optometrist. You are very intelligent and gifted.

Good luck
hugs, Karen

Hello. I just got back an hr ago from seeing my counselor and told him everything. He said it was horrible how my ex asked me to send him inappropriate pictures and videos last week and then just blew me off. He was proud how I didn't talk to him for 4 days so far. He thinks my ex is abusive and only talks to me when he wants something. He told me I shouldn't even be friends with him anymore. But if he does talk to me I know for sure I won't send him anything. I want to be his friend. My counselor told me he doesn't think my ex will ever change. My counselor also said that my ex knows that I feel guilty about breaking up with him 3 yrs ago (since I listened to my parents and broke up with him since they didn't like him) and my counselor thinks my ex is upset he got rejected so wants to make me feel more guilty by using me and abusing me emotionally. I don't know if my counselor is right or not. My counselor said he's afraid that if I get married one day (which I plan on doing) and become a successful doctor that he will try to ruin my career and marriage with the pictures and videos. I'm scared too.. I mean I don't think my ex would ever do something like that.. but now I'm scared :-(