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Posted 7/4/2010 9:37 AM (GMT 0)
hello again :)

things have been a bit hectic at the moment so i havn't been able to get on here.

i just finished my exams and despite what my school councler and parents thought i was going to get after everything in the last month, i think i did well.

things still aren't going well. in fact. they are the same.

my friends have been around more since the incedent with the hospital, but the bullies have also been around more. I think they find it funny or something.

it's hell having to go to my school now, the bullies seem to be everywhere all the time and are always shouting stuff. people i don't even know hate me because of the girls. the friends i have are great, but the badness is covering up the goodness. it's hard to describe, it really phisically HURTS having to go to school everyday because of them. my mum doesn't understand and won't let me move schools.

the boy who i used to love and used to be my boyfriend is still joining in with them. he still hates me. and it hurts because of everything me and him had been through, and suddenly he tells me he wants me dead.

i'm still having trouble at home. well, trouble is an understatment. me and my mum are always arguing and fighting and it's hell.

and her boyfriend and me do not get on at all.

i want everything to be sorted.

my life is turning into a hell place.

i can't escape the bullies, because when i'm at home they are facebooking me, and when i'm at school they are up in my face.

i hate it.

i want everything to get better.

cry
Posted 7/4/2010 12:22 PM (GMT 0)
Hi HWU


Welcome back, I was wondering how you were going. What are the teachers doing about the bullying? If they won't help you, go and see your principal and tell him/her everything that is going on. I think your mother should be intervening as well, does she know how bad it is?

I don't think you should go on Facebook for a while, that way they can't cyber bully you. But remember if any of them lay a hand on you, you can go to the Police and I think I would be considering it if I were you or your mother. It sounds like it is seriously getting out of hand.

Do you think your ex boyfriend is the ring leader? Because I do, it sounds like he is telling others to do stuff and say things to you. He needs to be hauled into the principal's office and given a lecture, among other things. Don't just take it, you have to get your mother to do something soon.

As for the home situation, try and just do what your mum asks you to do, stay out of trouble at home, don't back chat and keep a low profile and stay out of her boyfriend's way. I am really concerned about you HWU, someone has got to help you.

I hope you will go and speak to some teachers about the bullying and keep posting and let us know what is happening. I am thinking of you.
Posted 7/4/2010 2:56 PM (GMT 0)
Hi there,

I went through the same thing in school. Eventually it stopped because they found somebody else to pick on. But it is so hard when it is going on. You feel so frightened and out of place. And alone.

I am sure that in time they will stop. Remember that they do this because of their own self esteem problems. If they had good self esteem, they wouldn't have to bring somebody else down. I am sorry your ex is doing this. Perhaps he is jealous. Or else why would he be doing this. It is cruel and unkind. I hate it.

Do talk to somebody about this. It has to stop. I know how you feel hon. It isn't any fun at all.

I hope that things get better for you. And as Harrington said, stay off of facebook for a while. Don't respond to any of this. That is what they want you to do. Ignore it as much as you can. Talk to the principal. It helps.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 7/4/2010 7:40 PM (GMT 0)
thankyou verry much.

the school have been involved for a while, but nothing seems to be done. they just tell the girls off then let them outside again and they'll hate me more.
it's horrible. another load of people have just got involved and it feels like rubbish. :(

i want to be able to explain to my friends how i feel, but i dont think any of them understand. i want to be out of that school.

i cant really talk to my mum about it, or anyone, because they proberly think it's not important, and think i'm stupid.
it's so hard to explain.
Posted 7/4/2010 7:57 PM (GMT 0)
HWU,

Well, you are not stupid. Know that for a fact. I know that this is really hard. Generally they get tired of picking on somebody and move to another person. But being your ex is involved, this could be a way for him to make you uncomfortable. I don't know why he is being so mean. But it is very immature. I hope that you know that. They do not make you who you are. You do that, so don't let them cause you to think less of yourself. Do you go to any type of counseling? I think that it would help you in a lot of ways. It would raise your self esteem and the counselor might have some ways of getting these people to leave you alone. Either way it would be good for you to do.

I hope that things get better for you soon. Know that we are here for you.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 7/5/2010 6:23 AM (GMT 0)
Hi HWU

Just try and stay with your friends and ignore the bullies, I know that is easier said than done but it will show how immature they are. Wow, you have soft teachers at your school if they aren't doing anything serious about it, especially as you have been in hospital already through their bullying. Don't worry about them hating you even more, that is just kid stuff and again shows what babies they are.

Hang in there, try to ignore them and just get on with your school work and enjoy your friends.
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