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Posted 11/10/2010 9:24 PM (GMT 0)
eughh its me again :( i know, i know.
yeah so that boy i stupidly fell in love with that i sed another post.
well hes got worse, everyday he beats me even worse i have to wear tons of foundation to cover the marks. his aim is always to make me cry and he wont stop until i do. he hates me obviously because im gay and i like him. i really like him so its hard luck that he hits me and takes my money and stuff. i know, i admit noone of this would have happened if i was straight. i told him i cant help it but he hates me. i always try and be straight but easier said than done. i advise anyone whos gay in high school ( in the uk) to keep it to themselves its not worth telling anyone trust me on that
Posted 11/10/2010 9:50 PM (GMT 0)
Daniel,

Stay away from him. He is abusing you and using you. You don't deserve this type of treatment. Whether you are gay or not. Just avoid him before he hurts you really bad.

If this continues, you need to report it to the police. This is not right.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 11/11/2010 12:42 PM (GMT 0)
I very much second that.

I know sometimes we can go through stages, that we love someone even when they are hurting us, as it is better to loved by someone, rather than no-one at all, but I honestly believe, you are better to be on your own in this situation.

You are infact deprieving yourself of finding the real person that is out there that will love all of you, and not hurt you, as they can't be in the picture as you have alined yourself to someone else.

Break free from this disrespectful person, and find the one you will be happy with.

Good luck, I really hope things do not get far worse before you take the advice given
Posted 11/12/2010 7:12 PM (GMT 0)
thanks for the replys and your advice, im just really scared and as for going the police hes already threatened me about that. hes making me give him money and i get beaten if i dont do it.
Posted 11/12/2010 8:06 PM (GMT 0)
He can't continue to do this to you if you don't let him. You really have to talk to somebody. A counselor or the police. Or get out of the situation. Do you live with him? If so, move out. Stay away from him. Where are you getting the money that he is taking from you? Are you working? You are continuing to let this happen. You have to do something, it is your life after all.

Keep posting.

Hugs, Karen

PS If you are living with him and have no place to go, look up women's shelters.  There is help for you.  You just have to do it.

Posted 11/13/2010 2:48 AM (GMT 0)
I am deeply sorry this is happening to you. I know how you feel because everyone thought my friend and i were ***s. All i can tell you now is to be true to yourself, and no matter what others tell you, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. people's words and actions are childish, yet hurtful. Homosexuality is something to be proud of in my eyes; because you get to see the world in a different way than those of the same gender. If i were you i would tell a trusted adult immediately, but i know that is not very easy because its hard to come out of the closet especially to your elders. There are places where you can leave an anonymous letter with all the information so they can help you. You don't even have to state the reason why you are being bullied. And always remember that it isn't being un-manly or a bad sport; but to save the two of you (and others) from serious physical and mental harm. If you ever need anyone to talk to, just e-mail me at [email protected]
Love and hugs
~Jojo :-)
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