HealingWell
Search Close Search
☰

I don't know anymore...

Support Forums
>
Depression
✚ New Topic ✚ Reply
❬ ❬ Previous Thread |Next Thread ❭ ❭
Posted 3/1/2011 3:41 AM (GMT 0)

I'm 13 I'm not like I used to be I'm now deppressed and crying constantly my parents and school are putting pressure on me. I'm constantly feeling like I'm worthless and that I'm a bad horrible daughter to my mother.... I can hardly fall asleep anymore I'm having chest pains and everything seems to be going wrong...

Posted 3/1/2011 6:16 AM (GMT 0)

that's not good bri. is there someone you can talk to.

do you have a school counsellor or nurse? it is

important that you talk with a trusted adult. i am sorry

that you feel this way...........yeah it sucks. will mum

listen if you have a trusted person with you?

keep strong, and know that we care.  it will get better

bri. sending healing thoughts your way. jamie.

more people will pop in with more info soon. hang in

there.

Posted 3/1/2011 12:47 PM (GMT 0)
You might want to talk to your school counselor. This often helps. Know that you aren't alone in this. We are here for you.

Try to think positive thoughts. Know that you are a good person.

Take care,

Hugs, Karen
Posted 3/5/2011 10:45 PM (GMT 0)
I've tried talking to my mom still when I do she always ends up making me feel like I'm a horrible person. Yes I can be a brat but i dunno. I can't talk to the school counse
Posted 3/6/2011 12:41 AM (GMT 0)
Don't let her make you feel like a bad person. She can only do that if you let her. That doens't mean you have to argue your point or anything, just know it.

Hugs, Karen
Posted 3/6/2011 3:07 AM (GMT 0)
Sorry for hear what you are go through now. It is really not your fault that you have difficulty with school and relationship with your mom.

You need let your mom know you are depressed because parents usually don't know what could happen to their kids.

I am a mom and the past year, I have been fighting with my son's 'lazyness & no-motivation' and I feel so frustrated that both my son and I don't feel happy and nothing seems working. Until now, that I know my son is having depression, all those 'lazyness & no-motivation' are due to this illness. I could not regret enough that I didn't understanding my son and didn't provide help and support that he needed. I saying this because I want you know that your mom loves you and as soon as she knows your condition, she will give your all her love and support. Have faith on yourself and your family.

Hug!

Jennifer
Posted 3/7/2011 1:42 PM (GMT 0)
Thank you

Its feels good to know that there are people out there that care.

WG
Posted 3/11/2011 12:47 AM (GMT 0)
I am feeling so sad these days because my 2 sons that I love more than life itself have grown up and moved on with their lives. I want you to know that I am sharing that love with you now. Please come here for help before giving up. I have always wanted a daughter and although you can never be mine please feel the hug I am sending to you.
Posted 3/11/2011 1:02 AM (GMT 0)
I agree with everyones suggestions here. You should definetly bring it up to your parents, it will be an awkward talk BELIEVE ME. You're probbably going to think that there's no way that they will understand or that you can't possibly do it, believe me you can. I just went through this, and granted I'm older but still it was awkward. Anxiety/depression brought me down to my knees about a year and a half ago and I was so ashamed and embarrassed to admit it to my family. Once I did they were very supportive in having me giong out to try and find and get the help that I needed. I'm feeling better these days since the really bad depressed days, and I believe I'm getting better day by day. Admitting to your parents that you're dealing with this and asking if you could possibly see a counselor at school or maybe explore other options to maybe find a therapist or something like that would be good. Don't think you're weak for it either, that was my struggle at first. I kept thinking I was so weak and beneath everyone for having to see a therapist until I started going and actually seeing just how many people actually do see a therapist. It's not uncommon at all :). Best of luck to ya
Posted 3/11/2011 2:08 PM (GMT 0)
Hi sfgirl666,

I just wanted to welcome you to the forum and thank you for the nice post. Keep posting. If you wish, you are welcome to start a thread of your own so we can get to know you better. That is totally up to you.

Take care, thanks again.

Hugs, Karen
✚ New Topic ✚ Reply