Check around and see if there are any government agencies that can help you. It sounds like you are stuck in a hard spot now. Try not to think too much. It only makes things more difficult. Do you see a
social worker or counselor? I think it would help.
Keep trying. Keep getting information.
Hugs, Karen...
http://www.aware.org.sg/information/divorce/
I don't know if this site can help you. But you can give it a try...